Many years ago, I visited a village in Brazil where Indigenous people were living. The community’s chief welcomed us on his porch and began speaking about their traditions, culture, and the challenges they faced in modern society. As he spoke, a woman—visibly drunk—appeared. She interrupted him, declaring, “Don’t believe what my brother tells you. He’ll say we are Native Brazilians, but we’re not. Native people are lazy. We’re hard-working people.”
Then she walked away.
That moment has stayed with me ever since. It revealed something profoundly painful: the extent to which prejudice can be internalised. That woman had absorbed the harmful stereotypes directed at her people and turned them inward, believing that the only way to assert her value was by denying who she was. Her self-worth, in her own eyes, could only be affirmed by separating herself from her own identity.
During my time here in Johannesburg—short as it has been—I’ve witnessed a parallel dynamic. I’ve been surprised by how often people are puzzled when they meet someone, like me, whose parents were both born Jewish, and who nonetheless identifies proudly as a Progressive Jew. There is an assumption, often unspoken but sometimes explicitly stated, that Progressive Judaism is a second-rate form of Jewish identity, a refuge for those who "couldn't make it" in Orthodoxy. This idea is not only mistaken—it is deeply damaging.
Let me say it clearly: Progressive Judaism is not a consolation prize. It is not a fallback option for those who found Orthodox conversion too long or too burdensome. It is a bold, ideological choice—a way of living as Jews in honest dialogue with the world we inhabit.
Progressive Judaism affirms the spiritual dignity of women’s voices. It embraces the love between people of all genders as sacred and holy. It welcomes religious leadership without regard to gender. It finds holiness not only in silence, but also in the sound of musical instruments lifting our spirits. It recognises the spiritual value of closeness and intimacy, of celebrating life with those we love.
More than anything else, Progressive Judaism is committed to machloket leshem shamayim—sacred questioning. It sees idolatry not only in golden calves, but also in the rigidity of ideas that are never allowed to be challenged. It honours tradition not through blind repetition, but through studied engagement and conscious choice.
If these are your values, then you belong here. Regardless of your background, your lineage, or your journey—welcome home.
“To be a liberal Jew is to live in a world of choices. To be a liberal Jew is to be held responsible for your actions. To be a liberal Jew is to strive to make every aspect of your life a reflection of your values. To be a liberal Jew is to believe that you are inextricably linked to your ancestors, yet bound to the contemporary Jewish community, responsible for transmitting a meaningful and responsive Judaism to generations to come.”[1]
In this week’s Torah portion, we read of Nadav and Avihu, the sons of Aaron, who bring an eish zarah—a “strange fire”—before ה׳ and are consumed by Divine flame. Their fate is shocking, but not uniformly seen as a condemnation. In Midrash Tanchuma, Moshe responds by telling Aaron: “Now I see that they were greater than you or me.” According to this view, their deaths were not a punishment for wrongdoing, but a sign of their extraordinary closeness to the Divine. Their souls were so drawn to God that they could not remain tethered to this world—an idea echoed in certain mystical traditions as well.
Nadav and Avihu’s path of withdrawal is still followed by many: a religious life of withdrawal, asceticism, and self-denial, in pursuit of spiritual transcendence. But that is not the path of Progressive Judaism.
We believe that holiness is not found only in some lofty realm beyond, but here—in this world. In the words of Abraham Joshua Heschel, to be religious is to live in radical amazement, to stand in awe before the mystery and wonder of existence. We encounter the sacred not by retreating from life, but by engaging with it fully—through the laughter of children, the struggle for justice, the beauty of a sunset, the dignity of the marginalised, and the daily acts of compassion and courage that define human goodness. The task of Progressive Judaism is not to escape the world, but to transform it—to let our amazement lead us to responsibility, and our wonder give rise to ethical action.
Ours is not the path of Nadav and Avihu. Ours is the path of those who walk with open hearts and open minds, who refuse to abandon the world, and who insist that Judaism must speak in the voice of justice, compassion, and relevance.
Progressive Judaism is not a diluted tradition—it is a powerful expression of Judaism’s most enduring truths. It is not a fire that consumes, but a flame that illuminates.
May we continue to walk proudly in its light.
Shabbat Shalom!
[1] Wiener, Nancy H. Beyond Breaking the Glass. CCAR Press, 2001. p.1